She has presented two TEDx Talks, is the co-host of the podcast Sex Talk with Clint & the Doc, and has over 1.6 million hits on her In the Den with Dr. Jenn is a national speaker on couples’ intimacy, sexual consent, gender communication, women’s empowerment, erotic play, and mindful sex.
Jennifer Gunsaullus, PhD, is a sociologist, intimacy and communication coach, and author of From Madness to Mindfulness: Reinventing Sex for Women. I recommend watching the video once to get a feel for the session and to prepare yourself, and then playing it a second time following Dr Jenn’s instructions and letting her voice guide you through the practice. This is a non-explicit guided session that will teach you new skills in a sensual, mindful presence. For more tips and tricks about growing that snake monster in your trousers, check out my program in the matter – Unbreakable Erections.This video is appropriate for anyone with a vulva to watch, to learn, and to practice, but it’s especially helpful for people who feel shame or embarrassment about their genitals or masturbation. And masturbation definitely also helps with erections. It sets an imprint for how we see our bodies - what parts are treated as sexual and pleasurable, what feels arousing and safe, what is left ignored. Masturbation can be devalued, but it’s one of the most important developmental experiences. May help you feel more confident and valid the next time you have real sex.
Why? Because that distorted memory of yourself Weinfurt, the Duke professor of psychiatry who led the study. Recalled having better erections and better orgasms than they actually did,” That men are more unreliable narrators than women when it comes to certainĪspects of their sex backstories. Relationship – even if that’s far from true. Memories in a man’s vault are actually of him being a sex god in a past Memories of your ex partner and probably more about your memories of your own And second, they’re less about your actual To celebrate, Emojibator brings you 31 Days of Self Love featuring exclusive stories and advice on practicing mindful masturbation. Well, first of all, those sex throwbacks nestled comfortably in your memoryīank aren’t that accurate actually. Launched in 1995 by Good Vibrations in honor of Elders’ work, National Masturbation Month provides a unique opportunity to get people talking about a self love and encourage conversations about sexual wellness. Do you still feel weird about doing it? You shouldn’t. People are very much capable of having fantasies that they don’t want Reliving or replaying pastĮxperiences in your mind doesn’t mean you have unresolved feelings for a former Thinking of an old flame is normal, don’t freak out Per cent of respondents, is hot sex with an ex partner. But the most popular get-hot material, picked by 55 Run the gamut from coworkers (27 per cent) to friends (25 per cent) to complete A recent pollįrom dating website found that these fantasies can Masturbate with a little help from your porn friends, maybe it’s time to take aīreak from the naughty flicks and try it your way.ĭon’t worry, it will still be easy to get in the zoneĮach man has a personal inventory of sexual experiences,īoth fictional and real, that he can draw on while masturbating to get himself Your pace, you experience sex with yourself in ways you might have been too Rather than just on the end goal: your ejaculation. Yourself? What temperature feels best, what textures and sensations do youĮxperience? This way, you’re finally becoming more focused on your senses Like something different just as much as (or more than) your standard session.ĭo you always sit? Try standing. Particular habits and techniques, it neurologically wires your body and arousalįor starters, try other approaches: see if your body might On every time you give yourself a hand job and you always rely on the same When masturbation involves a simple formula that you depend It can make sex hugely better by simply broadening your Means you’re not supposed to be racing for the finish line and your orgasm In a mindful manner, you need to use your whole body, and all your senses. The job done as quickly and efficiently as possible. You included perhaps, masturbation is about focusing on the penis and getting Stay with me for a second, will you? For many men out there, Mindfulness + Masturbation = A match made in Pleasure Heaven? But fret not, I’m here to help you techniques that will for sure make you hard as a rock every time you have sex. If you are only somewhat hard… or worse… not hard at all… then that can not only hurt your sex life… but even destroy your entire relationship. I’m talking about my program – Unbreakable Erections – and this mindful masturbation thing will help in this respect as well, by the way. You once thought were your sexual limits.īut before I get started, let me point you to another thing that can deeply influence your sex life and make it ten times better.
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